When It Feels Like It’s All Falling Apart

Many times in our life there are situations and feelings that make us feel like life is not worth living. That our lives suck and if this is all there is then what’s the point? Right?

Well there is some good news in that situation. You have come to the realization that what your life has brought you is not what you want. (Clap! Clap! Yay!) Next thing you might be thinking is, “Yes that’s right but this is my life. It sucks! I am never going to get out of this. This is just the way it is. Why would I work this hard for just…this?!”

Because that is what you believe you are supposed to do. I know that is hard to swallow. Like why would we buy into a belief that working 50+ hours/week or slaving over a job we hate to have just a little time to enjoy our life over a couple days off is right?

Conditioning that is the answer! We were conditioned through many generations and society that hard work pays off. We have been conditioned to believe the harder you work the stronger you are. And no one wants to be weak. We have also been conditioned that when we see someone making money easily that they are “not of the group” so to speak. They don’t belong and there must be something wrong with them because how can someone make so much money and still enjoy life?

That person has been conditioned to take chances and make changes. They have been taught that there is a better way than the norm and they must seek it out and explore it. I am sure you have met these people. Some of them only work a few hours a week and make tons of money through passive and residual income. They have found what works and have mastered it. They have no fear and keep experimenting and learning from their results.

Now most of us were not brought up that way. Most of us were taught you take what you learned from school and figure out which of those subjects you liked best and then look at continuing your education in a career in that subject or just get some job so you can make money and have some of the things you always wanted.

Now insert you, you followed one of those paths and here you are…as miserable or maybe more as you were when you were deciding which career or job to do. You may have even taken one of those tests that tell you which jobs fit your personality best but still here you are stuck. How do you get out?

I got the answer. It is time to learn more about yourself and why you are here in this life. Time to recondition your beliefs so you too can have an easier life. Now I will forewarn you the ego is a very strong thing. Some people even have constant negative thoughts in their heads at all hours of the day and night. It is going to be hard to get it to obey what you want but you just have to redirect those thoughts into the thoughts of things you truly want in your life, things you truly deserve. Envision yourself where you want to be. Do not worry about how you are going to get there just focus on where you would like to be. If you can truly align in your thoughts this picture and invoke your senses into the vision as well (what does your vision sound like, smell like, feel like, etc), things will start realign to move you toward your dream.

It may take a while as some of us have pretty strong egos. I am sure a few of you read that paragraph and thought , “this is a bunch of bull, this will never happen to me” Well then you can see how conditioned your ego is and how much work it is going to take for you to change.

So here is something you can do first. Look up your human design profile. You can do this on many websites some examples are jovianarchive.com, mybodygraph.com, geneticmatrix.com. Find out what type, strategy, authority, and profile you are. This will help you start understanding and exploring your life. Then when you are ready book a human design reading. These tend to give you more insight on yourself and you have another human who is familiar in this subject who can help enlighten you on your next step.

So don’t despair. You are at a crossroads and you have now realized where you are is not where you want to be. Take the next step to understanding your self and learn your human design. And remember, the more aware you are the more aligned you are!

Blissings to you!

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